Friendship Beyond Romance
A close friend or brother can prove to be more valuable than a loved one when it comes to support, safety, and the deep mutual understanding that develops through years of shared experiences and genuine feelings. For example, if infatuation is attracted solely by external appearances, neglecting the true understanding of an individual’s personality, then friendship—unlike romantic passion—can reveal a partner’s true essence. As the saying goes: "Infatuation unveils the body, friendship—the soul. This is what underlies the marvelous nonchalance of friendly love. I am not obliged to be anyone's friend, and no one is obliged to be mine." (source: link txt)Moreover, in moments of personal difficulty or threat, when informal yet reliable protection is needed, it is a close friend or brother who stands guard over one’s interests, allowing one to feel safe. This is evident, for example, from discussions about numerous protectors, where it is noted: "And it is impossible for one who is guarded by so many squires to suffer any harm... in their presence, one fears no mischief-makers." (source: link txt)Also, in situations requiring complete mutual understanding and empathy, when traditional roles (such as those expected of a loved one) are limited, it is precisely friendship that provides genuine support, because: "We do not know anyone as well as we know our friends. Every step on our shared path confirms our friendship, a confirmation that is clear to us, conscious, and in which we actively participate." (source: link txt)Thus, when a deep understanding of a person is required, when sincerity, mutual support, and protection in difficult life situations are needed, a friendly or brotherly bond can be far more valuable than a romantic relationship, where often passion and physical attraction may overshadow true human communication and care.