- 20.03.2025
The Balancing Act of Praise and Independence
Indeed, there is a trend toward giving children excessive attention and rewarding them even for small successes, since this approach immediately shows them which actions are approved and helps parents manage the child's behavior more easily. As mentioned in one source, when children are rewarded for positive behavior, they begin to focus specifically on good actions, which fosters their cooperation and positive self-perception ("If parents pay a lot of attention specifically to negative behavior… By punishing a child, you focus on bad actions and, in a way, support the idea that children are inherently bad and need re-education" – source: 1351_6751.txt).