For the constructive resolution of conflicts in neighbor relationships, it is important to approach the situation with the aim of truly restoring peace and preventing further friction, rather than simply exacerbating the situation with mutual accusations. If a neighbor's behavior causes problems, it is worth trying to begin reconciliation on your own part—acknowledging that you too may have contributed to the situation—and taking the first step toward a dialogue. As noted in one of the cited sources, “Conflicts should be resolved not by following our ambitions, but by the desire for peace and love, asking God for help—then it will work. Many people in disputes are afraid to make the first step toward reconciliation. It is clear that this is not easy, but there’s no need to fear being misunderstood. More often than not, it is perceived very positively. Our opponent is most likely also burdened by the situation, yet he is just as afraid to be the first to reach out. When making peace with a neighbor, under no circumstances should you point out his mistakes; rather, humbly admit your own and ask for forgiveness.” This means that an honest and calm acknowledgment of one’s own mistakes can serve as an effective signal to initiate constructive dialogue by reducing tension and allowing both parties to view the situation in a new light.
