Embrace the Now: Mastering the Art of Living in the Present
1. Prologue – A Morning Sparked with HumorAlexey wakes up at dawn, the first rays of sun playfully teasing his nose, as if testing who gets to call the shots. Outside the window, a vibrant bird karaoke fills the air, and for a moment, he imagines these feathered performers proudly wielding tiny microphones. On the nightstand beside his bed sits a family photo, each smiling face so genuine that he can’t help but smile back, along with a couple of dried flowers reminding him that in the daily rush, he sometimes forgets the small yet meaningful tasks. But that sight doesn’t dampen his spirits: from childhood, Alexey has always been taught to find joy in even the little things.In that instant, he recalls an old friend’s advice about greeting each morning with a wave of gratitude and a quick check of daily goals. Taking it to heart, Alexey mentally glides through his top priorities: arriving on time for the meeting, enjoying an evening play session with his children, and making room for a brief stroll in the fresh air. He can practically feel how this simple awareness of his tasks bolsters his confidence and steers his mindset toward a bright, uplifting outlook.• Key question: Why is it so crucial, right from the start of the day, to keep harmony at the forefront of our minds?• A short tip from an expert friend: Start your day by quietly acknowledging what you’re grateful for and doing a quick check of your goals. This small ritual can bring a sense of peace and keep you focused on what truly matters.By the end of this morning, Alexey realizes how crucial it is to preserve balance from the very first moment of the day: a positive outlook allows him to savor the little joys and stay focused on the bigger picture, even when a tight schedule awaits.2. The Catalyst – A stunning revelation that could turn everything upside downAfter a morning workout and a short stroll, Alexey playfully pictures a foam crown resting on his head when his phone suddenly buzzes. An urgent note from a friend pops up:Dude, call me right now. I've got a project that's about to turn your life upside down, but it's going to come with a huge load of responsibility.This news makes Alexey freeze for a moment. In his mind, questions spark to life: 'Is it worth the risk? Can I still cherish every small delight if I take on a project with strict deadlines and sky-high expectations?'He opens his 'joy journal,' where he keeps track of everything that brings him pleasure, from a child's laughter to the first spring leaves. Each line gently reminds him that life always holds reasons to smile, even in the midst of chaos. Yet a new question arises: 'Will he be able to hold onto that sense of lightness if he plunges headfirst into this fresh whirlwind of demands and stress?'This news makes Alexey pause for a breathless moment, questions sparking to life: Is it worth the risk? Can he still savor every small delight if he takes on a project with strict deadlines and towering expectations? The key question remains: Should he step beyond his comfort zone and tackle bigger challenges?He opens his joy journal, a place where he records everything that brings him pleasure, from a child's laughter to the first tender leaves of spring. Each entry gently reminds him that there are always reasons to smile, even in the midst of chaos. Yet a new thought flickers: Can he hold on to that sense of lightness if he plunges into this whirlwind of demands and stress?• A quick bit of wisdom from a savvy friend: Divide the decision into smaller steps. Begin by calling someone you trust to gather the details. Then list the potential gains and losses. This helps pave the way for a well-balanced choice.After finishing the message, Aleksey decides to proceed one step at a time. He dials his friend to gather more details and mentally adds a new task to his list: create a pros and cons table. The day transitions into a tense search for a solution, and Aleksey can already sense that his usual routine may soon take a dramatic turn.3. Conflict Escalation – When a Steady Life Gains MomentumAlexey takes on a new project and soon realizes that his once-steady routine has shifted into high gear: meetings, briefings, urgent emails, and phone calls. The issues he used to avoid now loom too large to ignore. Each morning, he opens his digital calendar and divides tasks into 30–40-minute blocks, hoping to keep his focus from slipping away.In the evening, gazing at a sunset that glows like a freshly toasted pancake, Alexey picks up his phone and calls his friend:A friend offers a contemplative response:Responsibility is not an illness that needs curing. It gives you a chance to grow, but remember to look up at the clouds. Set aside moments to watch the sunset, chat with loved ones, and share amusing stories. It will help you avoid burning out.• Key question: How do you stay motivated and keep your creativity flowing when your schedule is overflowing?Practical Takeaways:1) Create a simple weekly schedule and include joy breaks, like a refreshing fifteen-minute walk or a relaxed dinner together.2) Break big tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate each one you cross off your list.3) Keep reminding yourself of the deeper purpose behind your work and how it enriches your life and benefits those you care about.At the end of this chapter, Alexey decides not to give up on his quick pauses for joy, even if his to-do list has grown into an imposing mountain. He realizes that the very process of planning has turned into a delicate fine-tuning of his life, where he needs to make room for both creativity and reports.The number of projects keeps rising, deadlines are driving him mad, and misunderstandings with colleagues are piling up. Alexey feels like a tightrope walker poised above a bottomless chasm: just one small slip, and he'll fall. At night, he tosses and turns, replaying his mentor's words in his mind: 'Harmony is the bridge between the happiness of this moment and the hopes for tomorrow.'It feels like the world is drowning in constant noise while endless calculations churn inside his head. Then, in a sudden flash, Alexey realizes that absolute carefreeness is only a dream, and there is no need to pursue it to the letter. True freedom appears when there is structure and support. With thoughtful planning comes a quiet sense of peace, and creativity finds its way back once again.It feels as though the world is awash in perpetual commotion, while intricate calculations spin inside Alexey's mind. Then, in one revelatory moment, he realizes that pursuing total carefreeness is futile, for it remains a distant dream. True freedom takes shape when there is a reliable framework to lean on. Thoughtful planning brings a serene calm, allowing fresh creativity to flow once more.• Key idea: Find balance between creative inspiration and work deadlines.• A brief tip from a seasoned friend: take three small steps today and free up a bit more time for family or cherished pursuitsBy the end of this challenging phase, Alexey senses that every bit of chaos has nurtured his growth. He decides it is time to stop thrashing about, chart a thoughtful course, and then return to the marvel within each moment.5. Resolution – We build a bridge to keep from plunging into the rushing river of deadlinesThe next morning, Alexey opens a fresh notebook and writes down his three main goals for the day. On the facing page, he leaves room for 'spontaneous ideas and sketches' so his creative spark can keep shining amid the daily rush.I don't want to be a prisoner of my tasks, he explains to his friend on the phone, delighted that he finally has a clear plan. I'm simply building a bridge between 'I want' and 'I have to do'.During meetings, Aleksey makes it a point to notice small, amusing details and records them in his personal diary of joys. This simple approach not only eases the tension but also renews his energy when conversations become overwhelming. In the evenings, he carves out half an hour for family or personal interests, such as a quick walk, reading stories to his children, or having a short chat with his parents. He is always surprised by how even a few minutes of relaxed connection spark his creativity once again.At the end of the day, Aleksey notices a trace of tiredness in his reflection, yet he also sees a spark of joy, a sign that, however imperfect, he has preserved a balance between his duties and moments of delight. This bridge between his dreams and his plans fills him with a sense of power: he realizes that he can keep moving forward without sacrificing those precious minutes spent with the people he loves.• Key Takeaways from the Chapter:– Block out clear segments for tasks and set aside moments for genuine self-care.– Embrace responsibility wholeheartedly: it hones your abilities and unlocks new perspectives.– Create wholeheartedly and take time to unwind: don’t postpone joy for another day– Seek balance in every day, ensuring your plans and dreams flourish hand in hand.